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Fifty years ago, Joni Eareckson took a dive that left her paralyzed and changed her life forever. Today she runs a non-profit organization called Joni and Friends that offers many ministries to those impacted by disability. In her autobiography, Joni, she shares her journey into faith, and in A Step Further she attempts on a personal level to answer why God allows trials. Fifty years later, these books remain fresh and inspirational.

Joni is a compelling story of an average athletic and church-going adolescent. Growing up, Joni enjoyed riding horses, hiking, tennis, and swimming. While she believed in God and knew scriptures, her spiritual walk was lukewarm. On July 30, 1967, Joni dove into Chesapeake Bay after misjudging the shallowness of the water. She suffered a fracture between the fourth and fifth cervical levels, which for some have meant death but for Joni instead resulted in her becoming a quadriplegic. In writing about her rehabilitation, she holds nothing back of the emotional upheaval she felt—anger, depression, suicidal thoughts, and religious doubts. Her openness is part of what makes her story such a page-turner. When she writes about at times turning away from but ultimately turning to God, I’m ready to listen because this isn’t just another feel-good conversion story.

As great of testimony as Joni has, I’d be remiss if I don’t point out that the well-crafted writing style is key to my repeat enjoyment. Joni has excellent character portrayal and setting description. People are developed through dialog and succinct sentences such as “His large dark eyes, usually smiling and full of good-natured fun, were clouded with concern.” Places are revealed through perfect word choice such as “The hot July sun was setting low in the west and gave the waters of Chesapeake Bay a warm red glow.” At every point of Joni’s narrative, I feel as if with her no matter where she is or what experiences she’s facing, and so I am pulled into her world.

During her two years of rehabilitation, Joni learned to paint with a brush between her teeth, and began selling her artwork. She also writes this way. To date, she has written over forty books and recorded several musical albums. One book, A Step Further, Joni wrote in response to the thousands of letters she received from people who identified with her depression, despair, and loneliness. The writing of it she says required much study on her part. The result is a well-balanced answer that incorporates additional autobiography while also providing scriptures that address suffering and the destination for every Christian of heaven. Naturally, in being an exposition not a narrative, A Step Further isn’t as suspenseful as Joni. However, it is just as easy to read, and just as honest. There aren’t any pat answers, but rather carefully thought-out encouragement from someone who accepted God’s response of “No” to her prayer for healing.

For me, Joni and A Step Further are treasured religious classics. I read them back in junior high, and Joni was one of the first movies I saw on the big screen. If you’ve yet to discover them, you’re in for a treat.

Miriam Franklin is the author of Extraordinary, a novel about friendship. Besides reading children’s literature and writing, she loves to teach. Franklin currently teaches language art classes to students in home schools, in public schools, and community groups. She lives in North Carolina with her husband, two daughters, and two cats. To find out more, check out my interview. 🙂

Here’s one important lesson I’ve learned: If you quit when you feel discouraged, you’ll never find out what you could have done if you’d stuck with it instead. Or, even better: The ONLY way to fail is to quit!

ALLISON: Do you view the jar as half empty or half full? Why or why not?

MIRIAM: When I’m writing, I try to create main characters who view the jar as half full. I think it’s important for readers to see characters who overcome difficult challenges or learn to accept changes in their life with a hopeful and positive attitude.  I hope this shows readers that while dealing with unexpected changes isn’t easy, it can make you a stronger person in the end.

ALLISON: Both of your novels are set in middle school. How does middle school differ from when you attended? How is the same?

MIRIAM: My elementary school was from kindergarten up to sixth grade, and junior high was seventh through ninth, so I was the oldest in sixth grade instead of the youngest. In junior high, when the bell rang the halls filled with seventh through ninth graders which was intimidating for a tiny twelve-year-old, especially when kids were retained more back then and it wasn’t uncommon to see a big sixteen-year-old in ninth grade!

One thing the same is that at this age, kids care a lot about what everyone else thinks. Your social status is determined by who you sit with at lunch, so the same problem about how you choose your friends and how you accept others still exists.

ALLISON: Your main character, Pansy, wants to become extraordinary. What were some of your goals in middle school? What were some of your failures?

MIRIAM: I’d had the same group of friends since kindergarten, and we moved from New Jersey to North Carolina in middle school, same as Sunny, the character in CALL ME SUNFLOWER. I spent most of junior high trying to find a place I fit in. It seemed like all of the kids at my junior high knew each other from elementary and as an introvert who’d always taken friends for granted, it wasn’t easy.

I didn’t worry too much about grades, but I should have since daydreaming during math class brought a D in algebra that I managed to hide from my parents. Each subject was written on a separate slip of paper and I just didn’t show them the last quarter grade! (Haha, I don’t think they ever found out about it, either)

I was determined to find something I was passionate about, but I discovered there weren’t many offerings for beginning dancers or gymnasts at age 12. Finally I enrolled in ice skating classes at the end of eighth grade after spending 6 weeks with a broken ankle…and not only did I find something I wanted to do every day, I found my first real friends since I’d moved to NC, and I found a place I fit in.

ALLISON: You and your husband once ran a toy and gift store with her husband. What were the highs and lows of that experience?

MIRIAM: The best part was getting to go to the Toy Fair in New York where we spent a couple of days looking at the latest toys and gadgets. It was so much fun poring through catalogs and choosing things that we thought would make our store unique. We rented an old house and my mom painted murals on the walls. It was like a dream come true watching the place come together and filling it with hand-picked toys and gifts. The low point is when we realized we couldn’t make a living from our small shop that most people didn’t know about and after a year, Creative Earth Toys and Gifts had to close its doors.

ALLISON: You have two cats. Do you think you’ll ever write a book about pets? Why or why not?

MIRIAM: CALL ME SUNFLOWER actually features Stellaluna, my black cat! There’s another cat in the story as well, a stray Sunny adopts when she moves in with her grandmother. I’ve also included dogs in another book I’m working on. I’m a big animal-lover so I’m guessing they will find their way into my stories!

ALLISON: Pansy’s best friend gets sick and becomes disabled. Is her story drawn on experience? Tell us about your inspiration.

MIRIAM: My niece, Anna, was actually the inspiration behind EXTRAORDINARY. She suffered a brain injury similar to the character in the book, although she was only around two when it happened.

ALLISON: Extraordinary is your seventh or eighth book, but your first published. What happened to those other books? How did you persevere?

MIRIAM: Some of those books were early attempts that were part of learning and improving my writing craft. Others I’ve continued to rewrite over the years and one of them turned into CALL ME SUNFLOWER, which will be published in May. While I received many rejections over the years, I’ve also received encouragement and I could tell my writing was improving so I kept at it even though at times it was rough! I knew I had stories I needed to tell so I tried to focus more on the joy of writing and less on the publishing process.

ALLISON: You home school language arts to students. What advice would you give to aspiring writers?

MIRIAM: Read, read, read! The best writers are also avid readers, and they pay attention to what works and what doesn’t work in a story. What makes you keep reading? What makes you connect to the main character and care about what happens to him/her? Keep a journal about books you read, making note of strengths and weaknesses. My oldest daughter started doing this in middle school, and she has an overstuffed notebook she calls the “All-Book Binder” where she rates her favorite books/series. (HARRY POTTER has remained number one!)

Also, write, write, write! Expressing your personal thoughts through a journal or diary is one place to start, and a way to discover your own unique writer’s voice. You can keep a notebook that you carry with you so you can jot down story ideas, characters, and settings when they pop in your head. Pay attention to people around you, the way they talk and their mannerisms. Take note of interesting expressions when you hear them, and collect newspaper articles as well that might inspire you to write a story.

extraordinaryExtra Ordinary is a delightful debut novel about friendship. The main character of Pansy, who is quiet and fearful but also exuberant and determined, won my affection. I also admire the author, Miriam Spitzer Franklin, for creating a sweet but realistic story about disabilities. Just as what lies at the end of Pansy’s year isn’t exactly what she had expected, so I too was surprised at plot twists in Extra Ordinary, and both are good things.

But there are also those children who persevere despite challenges, always accept the differences in others, and are full of spirit and heart. I wanted to write about a girl who considered herself average, and didn’t realize her own gifts that made her extraordinary.

–Miriam Spitzer Franklin, An Interview with Miriam Spitzer Franklin

I relate to Pansy. Until fifth grade, Pansy had allowed her fears to rule her decisions. Consequently, she’d already piled up a heap of broken promises to her best friend. The last of them had led to a major fight, the last that two girls would have. You see, the summer that two were to attend camp, Anna developed meningitis and became intellectually disabled. At the start of fifth grade, Pansy learned that Anna would have a surgery that maybe would heal her. Or so she thought. And this belief led Pansy to decide fix her broken promises. Not only would she cut her hair as promised, but she would learn to roller skate, and to take on all the other challenges that Anna would have. Some of them are funny such as brushing off the fact she accidentally wore misshapen shoes. Some are inspiring such as Pansy giving up weekends to pile up points in the class reading competition. I too have often allowed fear of the opinions of others, the unknown, and even plain hard work deter me from a goal. Through her awkwardness and failures, but also her courage and successes, Pansy learns that venturing out of her comfort zone can lead to new friends and experiences. It can also give her the confidence to speak up for others. And thus, while I never felt as if the author were leading my hand and teaching me the lesson of being brave, Pansy served an endearing example of how to live an extraordinary live.

Having seen and read numerous stories about characters with special needs, there’s a part of me that both expects and braces for that miraculous end. We naturally all root for the main character, and so part of me wanted Anna to acknowledge Pansy’s efforts to change. I also wished for Pansy’s sake that Anna would make a full and speedy recovery after her surgery. In all honesty, however, part of me also was ready to be disappointed if those things happened. After all, I’ve taught students with special needs for over ten years, and I know that the improvements are sometimes miniscule at best. Certainly, none of them could hope that a surgery would suddenly remove their disabilities. And so, I felt happy to see Pansy and Anna’s brother struggle with hopes and doubts all at the same time as they anticipated the surgery. I also view the end as a satisfying one.

First-time novels tend to have missteps. I saw one definite blunder. In chapter four, Pansy is wearing kneepads during her skate in a park. In chapter seven, she complains that her knees are stiff from her falls, but she’s found a solution: kneepads! Please do correct if I’m wrong, but wasn’t she already aware of that solution? The other error might not really be one. When Pansy’s new best friend is introduced, the description of her suggests that she’s your typical snobby, pretty, rich girl but instead her sidekick is. Even if I simply misinterpreted, I’d still have preferred Pansy’s new clique to have been average girls.

Those few little flaws certainly didn’t keep me from enjoying an extraordinary reading experience. I’d taken a break these past few months from reading books for young people. Extra Ordinary by Miriam Spitzer Franklin reminds me of why I’d been such a fan of children’s literature.

We Should Hang Out Sometime by Josh Sundquist reads like a hilarious teen novel about the confusing world of dating and falling in love. In addition, this over three-hundred page has positive diverse elements. Best of all, We Should Hang Out Sometime is actually a memoir and so the events in it are true, making it a highly sympathetic portrayal of one of life’s most important experiences.

As you might have gathered then, unlike many memoirs I’ve read over the past few years about disabilities, We Should Hang Out Sometime is not about how Joshua Sundquist was diagnosed with a rare form of bone cancer at age nine and lost his left leg. Or how doctors declared him free of Ewing’s sarcoma in his teens. Or even how Sunquist became a Paralympian. In other words, his disability is not front and center. Rather, the aforementioned dating world is. At the same time, his disability is an integral part of the story, which is how his memoir got recommended to me. Each section of the book is dedicated to a different girl who Sundquist dated and a different time period in his life. Equally part of each dating experience is Sundquist’s disability and how being an amputee impacted his love life.

For example, there’s what happened at a Christian club, when Liza connected with him. The guy in charged had organized a three-legged race. He began the activities by announcing who the first partners in the race would be. One happened to be Sundquist, which left Sunquist with the awkward experience of explaining that he couldn’t participate due to his leg. And after that Sundquist stopped trying to hang out Liza, feeling that it be impossible now for her to have any interest in him.
Multiple sections are like this, showing how Sundquist felt forced to deal with his disability, and so ultimately how he’d lose confidence before he even knew whether or not a girl would date him. Whatever one’s challenges in life, it’s a universal experience that a lack of confidence often sabotages what could otherwise have been a beautiful opportunity. Thus, I continually felt heartache for Sundquist as he struggled to figure out the dating world.

We Should Hang Out Sometime is diverse in a second way too, one which pleasantly surprised me. You see, Sundquist grew up a Christian and those values influenced his dating choices. Oh, and once again, the memoir is not about Sundquist found God, returned to God, or even rejected God. In other words, his religious upcoming is not front and center. Rather, the dating world is, but his faith (and that of his parents) remains a part of the picture too.

As such, Sundquist dated only once before he turned sixteen. And when he did began to date, he stayed somber with his girlfriends. He also limited his physical affection towards them. Granted, because of his extreme awkwardness with dates, Sundquist rarely had the opportunity to do much with a girl beyond holding her hand. Even so, there was the one date with Katie. They talked. And then they started to touch. When he got to the place of holding her breasts, like many guys, he appreciated the opportunity. But he also quickly drew the line at kisses.

Good novels for guys are still comprised of fairly slim pickings. We Should Hang Out Sometime not only integrates a positive portrayal of physical and religious diversity, but is also a compassionate and honest look at the universal experience of finding a significant other. Both males and females should find themselves in these pages and feel comfort in the revelations that Sundquist has about how to have a meaningful relationship.

JoshSundquistA Paralympian, a motivational speaker, and a bestselling author and motivational speaker, Joshua Sundquist was diagnosed with a rare form of bone cancer at age nine. His first two memoirs, Just Don’t Fall and We Should Hang Out Sometime, have been best sellers. The latter, which is about his adolescent dating disasters, is even under development to become a movie. I’ll review it tomorrow at Allison’s Book Bag. Save the date: March 30!

After his medical diagnosis, Sundquist was given a fifty-percent chance to live. He spent a year on chemotherapy treatments, before his left leg was amputated. At age thirteen, doctors declared Sundquist cured of Ewing’s sarcoma. Sundquist then began to pursue three loves: ski racing, motivational speaking, and writing.

As an adolescent, Sundquist moved to Colorado to pursue ski-racing full-time. In 2006, he was named to the US Paralympic Ski Team for the Paralympics in Italy. Sundquist is the only person in history to ever have been named to both the US Paralympic Ski Team and the US Amputee Soccer Team. In 2006, he also won the Body-for-Life contest.

At age sixteen, Sundquist gave his first motivational talk. He is now a nationally recognized speaker and continues to present to groups around the United States. He has spoken to groups ranging from Fortune 500 companies to inner city public schools to the White House.

Finally, while still in his teens, Sundquist became a contributing writer for the Daily Guideposts. He has also written for Guideposts Magazine, a monthly publication that features first-person narratives of faith in daily life, and been published in The Washington Post and in Newsweek’s now defunct college magazine, Current.

After the Paralympics, Sundquist retired from professional racing to pursue graduate studies in business and in communications. He continued however to pursue his other talents. As a motivational speaker, he served a two-year tenure as the National Spokesperson for the Combined Federal Campaign, an effort that raises millions for charities. He has also been featured on the back of Doritos bags nationwide for his work on behalf of amputees. In 2007, Sundquist was chosen as one of CNN’s Heroes, in recognition of his work within the amputee community. In particular, CNN profiled Sundquist and his founding of the social networking website for persons with amputations. Unfortunately, LessThanFour.org, closed in 2015 due to spammers.

Around this time, Sundquist also published his first memoir and hosted a YouTube channel, best known for his viral hit “The Amputee Rap”. To his thousands of subscribers, he announced in 2012 that he would publish a second book, the title of which uses one of his one of his signature statements used to end many of his YouTube videos. We Should Hang Out Some Time is also considered the “perfect pick-up line”.

Now living in Washington D.C., Sundquist recently got married. Ashley Nolan and Josh Sundquist met in 2011 at a club in Washington, when Nolan spotted Sundquist dancing with his friends. She is reported by New York Times to have said, “He had this spirit about him, this energy. You know how sometimes you see someone and you want to talk with them….” She was also apparently impressed that his dancing was uninhibited by what she took to be an injury. The story goes that he asked her name, and later that night after he got home, he began scrolling through the hundreds of Ashley Nolans who had Facebook pages to find the Ashley Nolan he had met. After finding 25 he thought might be the one, he sent them all friend requests. When Nolan received his invitation to become friends, and saw that Sundquist had recently become friends with five other Ashley Nolans, she realized he must be looking for her.

The now-married couple made news at Today when Sundquist dressed up as a sign for IHOP. Sundquist uploaded a video of himself hopping around in his costume, wherein his leg served as the sign pole. Nolan was in on the joke and dressed up as a stack of pancakes. In addition, Sundquist has a third book ready to be published in 2017.

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Summer Reviews

Books can take connect us with strangers, take us to unique places, and introduce us to new ideas. They can also offer hope in a chaotic world. And so I must share what I read!

Each week, I’ll introduce you to religious books, Advanced Reader Copies, animal books, or diversity books. Some I’ll review as singles and others as part of round-ups. Just ahead, there will be reviews of:

  • Joni: The unforgettable story of a young woman’s struggle against quadriplegia & depression by Joni Eareckson
  • The True Story of the World’s Most Beloved Animal Sanctuary by Samantha Glen
  • Brothers in hope : the story of the Lost Boys of Sudan–refugees by Mary Williams
  • The Inner Life of Cats by Thomas McNamee

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